🎄Christmas is a happy time for some, but it’s also a time that can be destructive within relationships, due to stress and the intense pressure of having to put on a “united front”!
💗Distorted Love ~ what is it?💖
🌹I am currently working with a lot of men and women that are in the midst of abusive relationships and marriages.
🌹Speaking from personal experience, to recognise you are married to or with an abuser, is soul crushing. It’s a truly toxic dynamic to be in. Here are some key traits:
🌹Love is NOT:
❌Being ridiculed, belittled, mocked or ignored!
❌Being treated like a child or being punished for not being a certain way!
❌Having to beg for attention, affection, or general intimacy
❌Feeling scared, being on egg shells or constantly blaming yourself for the other persons cruelty!
🌹Being valued as a human being, all your quirks!
🌹Having a free flow energy of respect and kindness running through at all times!
🌹Seeing yourselves as equals!
🌹Laughing, smiling and truly enjoying each other’s company!
❌If you’re having to constantly make excuses for your partners behaviour, this is a HUGE red flag of being in a toxic relationship!
🌟Ask yourself “is he/she genuinely kind to me?” if not, time to face reality and start getting out.
🌟Have Healing and therapy to rebuild your self-esteem so that you can see the relationship for what it is!
❌STOP making excuses!! Excuses are fear. Oh the amount of excuses I made until I finally got out!!
❤️Confide in people, because by doing this, you lessen the control this person has over you.
💖Lastly, please remember this...love is not a battlefield! You don’t owe anyone anything except to yourself!
🌟If you have screwed up in the past, own it and let that 💩 go! Don’t feel obligated to stay around horrible people, because you feel worthless!!
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