Your spouse is HUMAN! anything human is highly fallible and cannot be trusted 100%.
Your wife is IMPERFECT! and your husband will ALWAYS be imperfect as well.
We all wake up and jump into conclusions that we deserve UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and RESPECT. Okay, yes you do, but who will give it to you? Your spouse? If that's your answer, then you are soooo wrong. No one in human flesh is capable of satisfying you 100%. Feeling satisfied in your marriage is a choice you have to make every day either through what you give to the marriage or how you interpret what you get from the marriage. You may have a husband who is kind and caring but you may still feel grossly dissatisfied by the fact that he is not able to provide financially to your taste. You may have a wife who is humble and beautiful but you may still be grossly dissatisfied by her inability to run a side hustle successfully.
What you focus on in your marriage determines your overall satisfaction. If in the midst of all the good, the bad is what you choose to magnify, you will never be satisfied.
If you are asking your spouse to abandon all the good they do in the marriage, to focus on becoming perfect in their few areas of imperfection, just to make you happy, then dear spouse, you have an exaggerated sense of entitlement. You need to cut it off before it cuts you off.
Dear wife, that man doesn't need to bow at your feet. Dear husband, that woman does not need to change her body before you love her. Let your love meet your spouse at the very point of their imperfection and watch your marriage blossom.
Unconditional love is not automatic, it's built by what you choose to focus on.
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