MY QUIRKS EXPLAINED
No. 6) I'M DIRECT AF
During my early teens and adulthood, I didn't really know myself or feel all that comfortable within my own skin. As such, I would never communicate how I truly felt about things. This is actually a very emotionally draining way to be as you waste so much energy worrying about thoughts and feelings that mostly did not even materialise.
At some point, this switched completely (a whole other story) and I just became straight up. And when I mean straight up, I mean fucking straight up!
Now, I'm just direct AF with all my communication. It makes life much easier and you will always know exactly where you stand with me. If I think something you do sucks ass, you'll know about it. If I think you are amazing beyond anything else in the world, you will know about it.
I literally just speak what comes to me. It's very liberating and my experience is that most people find it extremely refreshing. Obviously there needs to be tact and awareness of how one delivers directness but you learn it as you do more of it.
Without a doubt, it is a key component of how I communicate. I'm sure some do not like it but as long as your intention is always genuinely in the right place, then it's a case of NFG. I personally just prefer to cut to the chase and attract people or open up people to be the same with me.
So yeah, no need to beat around the bush with me, get straight into it as I will you! - 11 minutes ago