Had a great weekend celebrating Memorial Day in Lawrence with Cameron.
Now it’s me time for the week. Time to grow, rest, recharge, and enjoy being with myself. Some wise advice I was given was “to never loose yourself in a relationship.” Relationships are beautiful but so is being able to survive on your own if life throws you a curve.
I’ve learned that it’s healthy to have your own thing, your own passions, and your own friends. Of course some of that will overlap, as it should. However you are still you and it’s important to do things independent of your significant other.
Don’t get me wrong, I would love to see Cameron more than just on the weekends, but that’s not in the cards at this moment.
Is it hard? Sure. Do I miss him? Of course. Will it be this way forever? I don’t tell the future, but I sure hope not. ❤️ I want Cam and I’s relationship to be so so strong that if and when we get to be together everyday that nothing can break it.
So I am choosing to take the days we are apart to work extra hard on myself, enjoying extra time with family and friends, and focusing on my hobbies.
Why? Because I can’t be the best Megan in my relationship, if I’m not constantly working on myself.
I am tired of the façade that relationships are perfect. We often see this on social media or TV. Well let me break the news sis. They aren’t perfect. NOBODY is perfect. That’s what makes life beautiful.
So take it from someone who’s learned the hard way... love yourself first. Depend on yourself first. Be your best friend first.
So cheers to happy and healthy relationships, and may we never forget who we are.
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